Been a while...

Too long, actually, since writing about chastity play. There's something about going through somewhat stressful life events (like changing jobs) that causes the top in me to hide. So there hasn't been much locking going on during the past month. And since the Locked One has seemed to have gotten stuck on the bottom side of his switchiness, we're both finding ourselves waiting for the other to top.

It's kinda funny, actually, and something that only happens to two switches who switch between themselves. I'm told that our switching back and forth is uncommon. I actually think it's weird that people stay on one side or the other in their relationships, and can't imagine ever doing something that crazy. Maybe that's my Gemini nature, but I would get bored and irritated very quickly with a situation like that. I understand that most everyone else in the kink community picks one side and stays there, and that we're in the minority. Just can't wrap my head around it.

During the past week, The Locked One has been in his cage 6 of the 7 days and nights. There was some redness and chafing going on yesterday, so he came out last night in order to heal. I've spent some time teasing and doing some cbt, so he's been extra horny. A few nights back he attached the sling to our big-ass bed, and licked me for about a half-hour, then used the hitachi on me.  He alternated bewteen the two for god-only-knows-how-long, and I came several times. I stopped counting at six. It was unbelievable. He's cum a few times during the week, but not nearly as much as I have. I can always tell when he's at his horniest because he texts me practically nonstop all day about all the ideas he has for doing the kinky shit that he dreams up. And he dreams BIG.  His mother summed him up best when she told me, "he always did his own thing." If she only knew how true that was...

We're going to Sinsations in Leather in Chicago in a couple of weeks, where the Locked One will do a presentation on Chastity Play.  I'm helping him pull together the presentation, and looking forward to working together on that.

We'll post up photos soon of a fun scene we did today: got ten people tied up and suspended on our bed. It was insanely fun, and I have the rope marks to prove it.

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