Jingle Bells

The week before Christmas I locked him up for a few days.  I wasn't able to control myself at all, and let him out every night so we could fuck like rabbits. And then we went to a play party on Saturday night, where we decided we wanted to wrestle, and so unlocked him right before getting on the wrestling mats.  We wrestle in a somewhat intense manner, we didn't want anyone or anything injured. It was an anti-climactic unlocking... or...climactic (or, of climax), depending on how you look at it. 

After I won the wrestling match, we took a break, then I coaxed him into the sling and cuffed him so I could fuck his ass.  And by coax, I mean he practically shoved people down to get in position.  Since it was the Saturday before Christmas, I decided to get festive and use some needles and fishing line to attach jingle bells to his inner thighs.  That way, everytime I thrust my big purple dick into his ass, there would be a jingling noise.  I even had him do the same to my boobs, so I had jingle bells dangling below each nipple, just so there would be lots of jingling.  I brought a santa hat, but in the midst of the fucking and the Dick Killer clamping down on his hard-on, I forgot all about the hat.  I even brought an extra harnass and dildo for a friend of ours, so she could experience the fun of ass-fucking.

The Locked One was able to keep the Dick Killer on for quite a bit longer than the first time, and we've tried it a third time, and he was able to tolerate it longer still.  So we're on the right track. I haven't had him in lock-up since then, but it's been on my mind.

locked on and biting in to the cock

getting close to locking on

The Jaws of Life (or Death)

He calls it the "dick killer."  I think it's a fabulous new toy (mentioned in the previous blog), and need to get a photo of him wearing it.  Maybe tonight! We tried it out a few nights back, and he found it to be excrutiating.  My favorite part was when he asked me to keep the key to unlock it close by.  I just looked at him and blinked a few times, because the key was sitting two feet away on the night stand.  But, since it was our first time trying it out, I decided to be a team player and set the key right next to me.  I enjoyed the facial expressions--looked like panic mixed with dread and horror. After he got hard, he needed the dick killer off within a few minutes. Just some minor indentation, no blood. He got locked up this morning, so we should have something to blog about in the coming week.
-Keyholder

new toys on the way and not blogged in sometime

We have some new toys coming in the mail next week, one is a Kali‘s Teeth Chastity Device for JT Stockroom the other is Ballz Gag from there too. I am not sure what one I am more excited about but should be fun. We are getting settled in after the move and have been busy with life but still having lots of fun in the bedroom. Last year we did the kinky 12 days of Xmas. I was locked up most of the time with fun stuff though the 12 days. We may be doing that again this year. I do have some plans for Christmas eve that I may be able to post some photos afterwords.

Locked

Found the Fucking Pliers

There were a few days where I couldn't find the pliers that opens the PA ring.  And since I couldn't find the pliers, I couldn't lock him up.  Irritated me a lot, but then we remembered where we left the tool, and we've been back in business ever since.  The night before last, we took off the hook part that goes through the PA piercing, and shoved the tube part down the shaft of his cock.  Then I sucked, stroked, and rode his cock while stimulating the prostate.  The top part of his cock turned dark purple, sort of looked cartoonish, and I wondered if it was going to explode...wasn't sure if he could cum or not since the bottom half of his shaft was squeezed REALLY tight.  Turns out, yes he can cum that way! He described it as "intense."  He's been locked up since Sunday night, poor thing.
-Keyholder

He's in!

It's official.  Our stuff is under one roof, co-mingling all together. It feels both strange and completely normal, all at one time. I will miss having a place to go where we could be completely out about our kink.  At his apartment, we could scream as loud as we wanted, leave the mess of toys and rope and lube scattered everywhere, and be completely transparent about the kinky part of our lives.  That's NOT the case at our current place.  However, the good parts seem to out weigh the not-so-good parts, so we're content with the decision. In the end, the hard parts were mostly about what to do with our stuff, and how to make sure we could still get in enough kinky playing, not anything about the relationship.  If the rest of my life were as easy as being with the Locked One, it'd be one big cake walk for me.

This whole mess of mixing kinky and vanilla parts of life is sticky. Discovering kink has pushed me to question how I want to spend my free time, and what holds the most meaning to me, and what relationships are most meaningful.  It's not an easy process. I don't like the separate lives that I lead, and wish I could figure out a way to integrate them more. Sometimes figuring this stuff out is frustrating and stressful, but more often clarifying and energizing. At the end of the day, the internal conflict is worth it, because I'd rather have the experience than not.

A fun thing about chastity play is that it can be done in both kinky and vanilla worlds, which can't be said about a lot of types of play. Of course there's the whole appeal of doing something naughty while in public, and the anxiety of possibly getting caught, etc.  But it also wraps up all the power exchange, intimacy, and arousal stuff that happens during play, and drags it out all day (week? month?) long. The complexity of chastity play keeps me thinking and plotting between lock-ups, and makes me really horny during.  It's been way too long since I've held the key. I may need to do something about that tonight.
-Keyholder

move under way

I am moving in with Keyholder this weekend. I have lived alone for about 9 years now. There is some sadness about moving out of the building I have been living in past 5 years. Many around here call the place Kink Central only people in the local bdsm community live here in the building it is lots of fun here, but is time to move on to something new. Parts of the move there will be big changes others not so much. I am looking forward to not having to look around in the morning to see what bed we are in. After we get unpacked I am sure we will be back to some cock locking soon.
In March i will be doing a workshop on Chasity at SINSations In Leather in Chicago.
not locked and loading at the moment

Not-as-fun Fun

I figured out something about chastity play. Locking up a cock and fogetting about it does nothing for me.  In fact, I think it makes me a little sad and uncomfortable. 

I locked him up last week right after a really hot fuck, right before I got my period.  I planned it that way, thinking that I would be better able to keep him locked up. Turns out, that works.  But I also didn't touch, tease, or torture him in any way while being locked up.  I literally forgot about it for a few days--partly because of the typical tired/cranky stuff that goes along with having a period, but also just busy with stuff going on after work for both of us.  I felt like shit about it.  I felt like I wasn't doing my part in our chastity play, like I was taking advantage of the power that was handed over to me. Also, locking him up is not about keeping him from fucking around or controlling how much sex we have. We have pretty equal sex drives.  It really is about the tease and denial for us. 

So locked up and ignored did not sit right with me.  It didn't do anything for the Locked One, either.  So, the lesson learned is that ignoring the locked cock is not fun for us, and if I'm going to lock him up, I need to plan some torment and give some attention to the fact that I get to have the key.  Sounds a little backwards, but that's what works for us.

Locked

What more is there to say? All is right with the universe again.

-Keyholder

not locked and loading

We haven't had much opportunity to play lately. The Locked one was sick and after that was over we spent some of our free time packing up stuff. We're moving in together, in the next few weeks, so trying to clear out all the crap at both of our places.  We found some really hilarious old kinky shit in a box at his place. Most of it went in the trash, but I found it interesting that even way back then he had a strapon dildo and harnass.  There were old magazines called Variations from the 80s and 90s that had all didfferent kinds of bound pretty ladies and sex scenes, and a bunch of stuff to make a mold of his dick, which could be used to make candles.  Very fun.  The crap I'm cleaning out of my closets is WAY boring compared to his closets.  I get bored just thinking about all of the crap I need to get rid of.  So I will need to figure out when I will lock him up again, just hasn't seemed like there's a good time. And i'm always taking it off anyway...so will need to do some planning.  I was tempted to lock him up last Friday as I was fucking him from behind while he was chained to the bed.  But was having too much fun pounding away, and then, of course, he came a bit fast. surprise!

-Keyholder

The Bed/Kinky Fun Thing is Done!

I don't even know what to call it. It looks like a backyard pergola made for an elephant's patio. It takes up my very large bedroom and my daughter thinks it's her personal jungle gym.  On Friday night the Locked One installed it, and holy shit there's a lot of attachment points. It weighs something like 600 pounds and is made to adjust to fit both a queen and king size bed. It can hold the sling as is, or the posts on top can be reconfigured to hold the sling off the end of the bed. I'm a little nervous about what friends and family will think of it, as it does not look very traditional.

Of course, it needed to be tested after it was installed, after the child was asleep. So I tied him up, took him out of the cage, and did bad (good) things to him and then there was fucking. He's been out since then, and not sure how long til he goes back in. If we don't blog for a while, it's because we're playing with the new toy!

Keyholder

Locked Again

I got him back in again last night, after a fun night of some teasing in conjunction with electricity zapping through his balls. Of course, there was fucking and cumming, too.  But I got him locked up again RIGHT AFTER the cumming.  I have found that he hardens up rather quickly when I bring out the cage...what a slut! And it's just such hard work to squeeze his gigantic-ish cock into the cage. He's still in the cage tonight, since I worked late and couldn't get my brain to stop reviewing work crap. I think that not planning is the best way to play for this keyholder. Something always seems to happen that makes my plans change. Some of the most fun I've had has come from spontaneous, in the moment ideas, while he's tied up and squirming around. He's really quite inspiring when he's white knuckling it, straining against the wrist cuffs, dick erect, thighs shaking, moaning. My mind really gets going at that point, and I try to figure out what to do next. Then, inevitably, The Horny really revs up in me, and then I'm dripping wet.  So the two competing needs are 1) to bring the tease and torment to new levels, and 2) to get off and cum really hard. I like it best when both of these things happens, and he seems to like it too.  Although, he kinda doesn't get to pick how it goes if he's in the cage! I'm a very lucky keyholder.

Changes in plans, again.

I had BIG PLANS for the Locked One's cock.  It was not going to be set free for at least a week, starting last Wednesday.  The plans unraveled on Saturday.  I was going to have a bunch of people bang away on his ass on Saturday night while in the cage.  We discovered on Saturday that his ass was a bit tender from the Friday night fun (see the previous post). So we nixed that, and I decided that I wanted to do something different, wasn't sure what, but wanted the cage off.  This whole attempting to stick to the plans doesn't work for me.  Kind of the story of my life.  The Locked One was just supposed to be my fuck buddy, dammit.  I can't really call him that anymore.  I think I'm going to change my expectations for myself in terms of length of time i lock him up, since it's not been working for me.  I was thinking this morning about my desire to make this play a lot more intense.  Maybe length of time does not equal more intensity.  Well, in some ways it does.  But if it's not fun for me, then I don't want to do it.  So I was thinking up some new ways this morning to get that intensity, without going the distance, so to speak. Maybe down the line I can get there, but for now this will do.

On another topic, I am excited for our new bed frame to be completed.  It's being custom built by a friend of our's, and I'm already dreaming up fun things to do on it.  It's a fucking huge steel bed with four posts connected around the top, and will have extra posts that stick out on the ends so we can attach the sling to it.  It's basically a big steel box with about a thousand attachment points.  I'm not sure we'll leave the bedroom for days once it's installed. We should get a mini-frige and stock it just to keep our energy up. We'll show pictures when it's done.
-Keyholder

Back in the cage and pounding by JR

After a short break from lock up I have been back in for past three days. Keyholder is talking about making ways to earn my way out of the cage not sure what that will look like but could be lots of fun. So last night we set up JR . Jr is one of the fucking machine I built it has a industrial dc motor and can two at the same time on either side of the machine. She put me in the sling so I had very little movement. She got JR going on me then got on the other end and mounted big blue and grabbed the Hitachi. she fire up Jr and fucked her self as JR is pounding my ass on the other end. after a good hard fast pound she was able to have her orgasm. when she got done she check to see larger amounts of precum steaming out of me. BIG fun

Tonight we are going to a party with a workshop on strapons. we are talking are opening it so others can use me in the sling 

A Pause in the Play

Last Thursday I had had enough of not fucking, so I teased him for a while and then pulled him out of the cage (apparently too rough), and we fucked (finally!),  Then stuck him back in again. Didn't noticed til Friday night, when we were fucking again, that there was a small scratch/gouge/scrape on the side of his cock.  We think that it happened when I was pushing his very hard dick through the cage, and skin caught on one of the side openings. So I thought we should let that heal before putting him back in. It shouldn't take too long, maybe this morning...  I was actually relieved last night that it was off, since I didn't have an ounce of Top in me.  Something about having my daughter all weekend, plus Thursday and friday she was home sick from school, and then needing to go in to work for a couple of hours Sunday afternoon, made me feel exhausted.  But I'll get over that quickly.  I might be over it right now.
-Keyholder

lori's tube #7

Here is the  our Lori's we did not use the back ring sometimes because of the PA lock . we did use a small cable to hold it up it work fairly well

Life happens

We had some really hot plans brewing this morning via text messages--lots of licking and sitting on his face, potentially the bouncy chair was coming out to play.  I was going to get him hard and purple again, and I was going to get off in a really big way...and then I got a call that I needed to watch my daughter because my ex had an emergency come up.  Which I'm more than happy to do, and of course want to spend as much time as possible with her, but that means plans will have to change.  And they did.  And that's okay.  It was kinda a long day at work anyway.  Now Locked is asleep on the couch, and he's sort of snoring lightly on and off, and his feet are twitching a little, which means he's way gone to sleepville.  This is one of those days where I get a little torn between sticking with the chastity play and just dropping it for a day or two. I want to continue with the torment, but I also just want to get naked and have some really good sex and cum really hard together.  Now that he's asleep, I don't have to decide, but if he was awake, I would have had to make that decision.  And the last thing I wanted to do today was make another decision.  Being in charge is sort of tiring some days.  Luckily, the Locked one understands this and doesn't give a shit what happens, as long as he eventually ends up back in the cage at some point.  And that, I can guarantee, will happen.

-Keyholder

Strapped down and tormented

Last night key holder strappped me down to the medical table with a number of 2in straps,  then put a leather hood with blindfold on me. Also tied my legs up high and wide before starting the torment.  Now with full access to my ass and cock she took the hook part  off the pa 5000  and slid the cage down farther  to expose more of the head of my cock.  She worked over my ass and cock for about a hour or so. I knew that she was not going to let me cum. I would just have to endure being edged over and over. After some torment she got her purple strap-on and pounded my ass before leaving me tied up and getting herself to cum with the Hitachi, then back to pounding my ass again. At one point she climbing on top of the table and mounted the end of my cock with her wet  pussy teasing it more.  After it was over I was exhausted and just laid there for a bit.


I wonder what is going to happen tonight.


 still  Locked  again

locked in my curve

This is a photo from 2008 when was using the Curve we used a PA cable to keep it secure it work the best in years past for longer lockups (few weeks).

locked again

I am locked up again with the pa-5000 with 2 of the extra rings. she locked me after teasing me a long time last night in bed bringing near cumming over and over, a couple times I thought I was cumming. She used a number of ways to do this, starting with sucking and stroking my cock. Then the gloves and lube came out to work over the prostate. At some point she removed the PA and she used her finger to tease the bottom side of the head. then she climbing on top mounting me riding me for a bit then looked at me and said "wasn't that fun" then unmounted me. She grabbed the cage and locked me in. She does not keep me locked for long periods as some others who do chastity, but when I get out out of the cage and get to cum ( not the same thing ) is up to her. In the past she has coated my cock with Oragel then covered it with condom. I would have to have sex with her till she cums but not be allowed to cum. I do think this time she is going to try keeping me worked up as much as she can. She does like me worked up and horny. There will be some dirty texting in the next few days i am sure.




Locked (again)

Enforcer Steel Chastity Belt

The Enforcer Steel Chastity Belt
from Extreme restraints.com It is cheaply built it did not fit . I ordered a medim 33-35 I wear 34 jeans I had to fight to get it on and when i did it was so tight it shared cutting off some blood flow around the belt. Extreme restraints was very unhelpful it was the 2nd and last time I will have any problems with them as I will never order from them again

Locked

new cage here with 3 rings

Caged cock with 3 rings

cage marks

marks after hard night in PA-5000

The Fun Thing Arrived!

The replacement cage arrived on Friday, with a bonus of TWO extra rings!  Of course, we had to try it out.  So we taped the three rings to the cage, slid it on, and it seemed to fit perfectly.  I decided that testing it thoroughly would be important, and check for any load limitations. So after securing his cock in the cage, I cuffed him into the sling, and fucked his ass for a while.  We actually tried to push a bowling pin up there, but it seemed too blunt to make it fit. (There's a whole story behind the bowling pin, that involves Femcar, but won't go into that now.) He was very hard, and his cock turned a little bit purple at the tip, but overall I was very pleased.  After he requested that I stop pounding his ass, we moved into the bedroom, where I had him lick me for a while.  Then I sat on his face and, along with help from a hitachi, came very hard on his face. Right about this time, I came up with a plan to get some morning sex.  Since he is NOT a morning person, and I am, I decided to make sure he was very horny in the morning by keeping him locked up for the night.  My plan worked, and in the morning, he was very ready for something, anything.  He seemed more than happy to have me release him at 7:30 a.m. The cage left indents in his dick, and I took a photo. And I got my morning sex, too.  It was big fun for me.

-Keyholder

Keyholder's Cock

This is me and my big purple dick.  I have several other dicks, but this is my favorite one because it's got good girth, two big ridges, and it's short enough to do some major ramming up the Locked one's ass. Which I will be doing in about five minutes.  :)

The replacement cage has not yet arrived...so I'm still plotting.

-Keyholder

(Not so patiently) Waiting

It's taken a while to find a device that works for the way we play, and now that we've sent it back, and are waiting for the exchange, I've found myself planning for the next round of lock-up. Not sure what I'll do exactly, and it won't be written about here, but I think that my Locked One will like it.
I was really horny this afternoon and kinda pounced on him, and then just sorta ended up putting cuffs on him and then attached him to the bed. I was thinking about doing some teasing and orgasm denial...but I just couldn't wait and started fucking him, and then we both just got a bit aroused, and then we both came really hard (as usual). Does anyone else have this problem where you want to with hold/tease/torment, but instead it just turns into really great sex? I have the best of intentions, but I just get so drippy-wet aroused that I can't stop. And the hitachi is just not as good. I'm curious how others handle this...
-Keyholder

bird locked

this is my Bird Locked I have try to wear it a couple of time and does not work for me. I am a larger male and after wearing it over night end up with some marks. because it is one size fits most. I can not make the ring larger and is too tight. and it would need to be longer for me to wear for longer periods. I do like the idea of the silicone and it being flexable. I am not sure i could pull out or not but don't think i would be able to get back in with out being unlocked. I ado think this would work for smaller guys.

pa 5000 sent back

We sent back the pa 5000 this week they are going to send us a new one and a few extra ring so we can see if that will work or not. Hopefully by the end of next week we will have the new one back and can try out the ring.

Locked

More fun

Photo of PA-5000 after it was glued.

The other night I tormented Locked in the cock cage for a while, not knowing if I was going to release him and let him cum. I only used cuffs on his wrists, which were attached to the bed, so he had a lot of freedom to squirm and move around. I spent a fair amount of time with my fingers up his ass, massaging the prostate area, and used my mouth on his locked dick. I really like having access to the head of his cock because it allows for lots of stimulation and teasing. Locked was fairly worked up (as evidenced by the heavy breathing, moaning, squirming, and rock hard dick dripping pre-cum everywhere) and so I thought I better fuck his ass with my huge purple dildo just to make sure he was feeling good. I don't remember at what point I took him out of the cage, but it wasn't long thereafter that he came so hard that he practically couldn't breathe for about two minutes afterwards, and he clamped down so hard on my dick, that I wasn't sure I would get it back. Seems like everything is SO SENSITIVE down there directly after cumming, which of course makes me want to keep going and force another orgasm...haven't gotten there yet.

I typically have no idea if I'm going to let him out, or not, on any given day. It all just depends on how I feel in the moment. And in this case, I wasn't sure if I wanted him out until I realized how worked up he was, and how much fun it would be to make him cum really hard. I also wasn't feeling particularly toppy that day. Lately, I have wanted to bottom more than top. But when I do want to top, I like to get him worked up with a lot of ass play and dick sucking and then lock him up again, and repeat that over a few days. Of course, then I have to figure out a way to get my needs met during that time. Speaking of that, I think Locked needs a wake up call this morning.

-Keyholder

My curve with a PA cable
-Locked

A couple of times we used a ring attachment with this one that has little pointy teeth that dig into an erection, just in case one would have an erection... :) I think Locked only wore that for a couple of days and nights and got very little sleep. I wonder where that went???? (It's called "points of intrigue" or something like that.)

-Keyholder

Lock problem

We had a small problem with the lock on the PA-5000: it needed to be pushed in before turning and was a little sticky and we broke the seam around the lock system. We did re-glue it with super glue and it is working fine at this point. We did put a few drops of silicone on the lock so it turns better. The manufacturer said they would change it out for a new one and we will do that shortly. Still all and all we are happy with the PA-5000 over anything else we have tried.

Locked

new photo

Photo for new toy. We have not glued the extension ring to the cage yet, so that is why the tape. I talked to the manufacturer on Friday they are going to sell extra rings. Sounds like now I need to call back to see on Monday when and how much they are going to charge.

Locked

New Toy!

The PA-5000 arrived in the mail while we were on vacation in Yellowstone, and we were beyond excited to try out the new device. So as soon as we got home, we tried it on for size, and ended up using it all week. It fit perfectly and was comfortable for day and night wear, was easy to remove and put back on, and left lots of access for teasing and torment. This is what we had been looking for. We think it will fit our needs perfectly. Other than some periodic pinching of skin when sitting/moving around, it works just fine.
Locked: I work construction and have been up and down scaffolding all week with no issues. I don't notice the morning erections, unlike with every other device we tried. It does not use the ball capture as many of the CB-type devices do, so it doesn't pull and tug, etc. Most of the time I'm not even aware that I'm wearing it other than being more aware of females anywhere near me. We are using the extension ring and hoping to get one or two more of them to try, and we'll see how that works.
Keyholder: I'm excited about how easy it is to take off the device, and put it back on. I like a lot of sex, and don't want to go without just because he's locked up. And since we don't play much with others right now, he's the one who needs to take care of my horny-ness. This device fits the way we play really well. With other devices, there were lots of parts and it seemed to take forever to get it on or off, which took the spontanaity out of it for me. So far, so good.