Still locked suprised

Last night we went to a play party. I knew that Keyholder was planning a scene for the party, which will be a later post. I was expecting to be let out and made/allowed to cum some how. She surprised me in a number of ways. One was I was left in the Jailbird the whole time and was not allowed to cum. 4 different people used strapons on me in the sling. So now I am not sure when I will be let out and allowed to cum or how.  One might be Tuesday night, since we have been planning some fun for then. It might be next saturday, too, when we have a play date setup. The other thing that plays in to this is she is close to that time of the month, most of time in the days before that she is not feeling well and her sex drive is lower. For the first time in some time my head is spinning somewhat with our chastity play and that is a really good thing.

I know of many other guys that do long term chastity. The longest for me has been about 2 weeks. We don't play like many others that I know of. We have a very active sex life so missing a day or two is something that does not happen that much. Not knowing when I would be allowed to cum again is something I have asked for but many times I have had some idea when I might cum again.  But not this time. I am both excited (in a number of ways) and a bit scared that I may be getting what I asked for. We have had a few talks about the whys of chasity for us. I told Keyholder that if it worked for her I would like to be wearing the cage most of the time. Part of the play in not how often I cum as much as i don't get to pick when it is, so we will see how it all plays out in the up coming days. It would be great to find the balance that works for both of us on a longer-term basis.
locked ( and very horny and excited)

Relocked maybe I could say double locked

We are trying a new round of locking this week with a few things different. First, we are using two locks. The regular lock we have been using on the Jailbird, but now have added a Lori's #19 Stainless Steel Padlock Prince Albert Piercing. It locks though the cage of the jailbird making pulling out impossible without removing the lock first.

It uses a specialty screw that is not able to remove without the 1 key that came with it.

I have been wearing it this way for a couple of days now, going well so far.

The second thing we are trying is for me to be more focused on starting activities in the bedroom.  It may be challenging for me as most the time I am not the one who initiates thing to start with. Not that I don't want to do things, just don't initiate them. I have been craving to be locked past 2 months so we are both looking for way so it can work well for both of us.

 double locked and happy 

From Keyholder:

The song by Cheap Trick "I want you to want me" just popped into my head after reading this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HBQ9dm7zaQU&feature=related

It kind of explains part of how I feel. Because, seriously, if he's locked up, shouldn't it be how I want it?

And, by the way, he did a fabulous job last night of practicing our new approach to chastity play. Relaxed and satisfied doesn't even begin to explain the place I went last night.

Unlocked for Now

A couple weeks back we decided to press the pause button on our game of chastity play for an undetermined amount of time. It's not been working for me, the Keyholder, and I haven't been getting much out of it anymore. When I reluctantly said this to the Locked One, he suggested we stop for now, and go back to it when we're ready. I feel sad writing this, since it's been an important part of our play. But there's parts to it that trigger some major stuff for me, and until that gets resolved, it's probably better to leave it alone. We have lots of other kinky interests to pursue and revisit, and we're good with that. We'll continue to post about our kinky adventures here on this blog.

A Quiet Sunday Afternoon...

Here's some photos of the bench in use. We spent the first weekend of the new year getting some use out of the little black bench. It was a fun time, and the bench proved to be an excellent toy--very secure, and plenty of attachment points.

Secured and ready...

...and drippy.

There was no way he was getting away from this cock.

Black cock out, purple cock in, with pink rope for use while I shift to his face.

He did a good job, and so I moved behind him again and made him cum hard.

This was the mess afterwards.

Written 11/24/10:
Last night we had some time to spare since my daughter was spending time with her dad, we didn't have any plans, and seemed to have enough energy to stay awake past 9 pm. So we decided to mess around in bed for a while. I ended up tying the Locked One to the bed, shoving a vibrating ass plug inside him, and clipping clothespins to his nipples and scrotum. Then I took a long hot shower so he could spend some time experiencing those sensations. After the shower, I put on the spiked rink around his cock, which really bit into him when i sucked his cock for a while. I finally removed it when he began straining against the wrist and ankle cuffs. Then I took off the clothespins--somewhat gently--and then sat on his face for a while. That ride lasted a while, then I slid down to his cock and rode that for a while. Biting is always fun to me, so I did more of that than usual--his shoulders and inner thighs are my favorite spots. At some point I untied him, and we fucked long enough that we were drenched in sweat when we came all at once. I was physically exhausted, but didn't feel done with him yet.

After about fifteen minutes, I pulled my big purple dick out, and convinced him to let me fuck his ass for a while. Although he seemed resistant at first, he eventually let me punch my way in, and I rode him hard. (I couldn't believe he let me do that!) Then I got horny all over again, and had to grab the hitachi and shove that between my legs for a moment. Insert roaring orgasm #2 here. Then the Locked One started getting hard again, and managed another orgasm as well. From my vantage point, it looked like an excrutiating experience, but he didn't seem to mind.

I especially enjoy asking him questions when he's at the peak of an intense situation. I want to know exactly what is going on inside his head, which forces him to think about the pain he's feeling. And I like seeing him struggle to find the words to describe what he's feeling when he's already spending all his mental energy on coping with everything else. His brain is mostly in fight-or-flight mode at that point in time, and I'm asking him to process and verbalize what he's experiencing, which is really hard to do. Sometimes I ask him to name some of the feelings he has at that moment, or I point out the irony of the situation--that he has asked for this, and allowed me to do these things to him, and how generous it is of me to do so.

When he in the midst of one of the above orgasms, I asked him some questions, and all I got was some mumbled words that almost sounded like "I don't know."

Mission accomplished.